i received the best father's day gift - our son (20 mos) finally recognized my existence by referring to me as "papa" with intent. he had said it some time ago, a random word among the others, but then suddenly, and inexplicably, refused to utter it again - instead preferring to monologue periodically about "mama" "key" "car" "vrmm" throughout the day.

now i'm a person again, a reference point with meaning. this also means some of the annoying grunts and whining has disappeared (cute, but, like anything, annoying when repeated x100). he can now say things like "papa. papa. papa. nana" instead. which i'll take over "nnng. nnng. nnnnnng. mmmnngg" (pointing to counter).

he's unleashing his word hoard with a new-found speed and determination, and i'm glad to be included in the growing list of things he feels it essential to talk about.